My Spouse Is Still Talking to the Affair Partner — What Should I Do?

One of the most painful and confusing situations a betrayed partner can face is discovering that their spouse continues to maintain contact with the affair partner after the discovery of the infidelity. Whether the contact is framed as necessary for work, co-parenting, or friendship, ongoing communication with the affair partner represents one of the most significant obstacles to rebuilding trust and moving forward in recovery.

In this episode of Ask Dr. Talal, Dr. Talal H. Alsaleem, PsyD, LMFT addresses what it means when an unfaithful spouse refuses to cut off contact with the affair partner, what this behavior communicates about their commitment to recovery, and what steps a betrayed partner can take to protect their emotional wellbeing and set clear expectations for the healing process.