Affairs don’t happen in a vacuum — and understanding why they do is the key to recovering from them. Dr. Talal H. Alsaleem, the father of modern infidelity counseling, delivers a clinically grounded, research-backed breakdown of the individual, relationship, and environmental causes of infidelity in his powerful new book Deconstructing Infidelity.

A comprehensive, two-hour workshop from the leading expert in the field of infidelity recovery and creator of Systematic Affair Recovery Therapy (SART), Dr. Talal H.…

Out of the many books that promote the idea that repairing the relationship after an affair is an achievable goal for everyone, this book will…

In the final installment of this series on affair disclosure, the focus turns to one of the most nuanced aspects of the recovery journey: learning…

As the disclosure process unfolds, many betrayed partners find themselves at a crossroads — torn between the need to know more and the fear that…

Knowing what questions to ask following the discovery of an affair — and understanding why those questions matter — is an important but often overlooked…

The question of how much information to seek about an affair is one that sits at the heart of the recovery process for many betrayed…

Blame-shifting after infidelity is a pattern that, when left unaddressed, can derail even the most sincere recovery efforts. When the unfaithful partner consistently redirects responsibility…

One of the most bewildering and painful dynamics that can emerge after the discovery of an affair is when the unfaithful partner begins to blame…

After the discovery of an affair, many betrayed partners feel an urgent need to know exactly what happened — who, what, where, when, and how…